Am I being Slutty?

[ogie764]

Hey there, I've had a friend w/ Benefits (FWB) since last November

wth a good friend of mine. We're fine with it and I don't want

anything to come from it; plus we never sleep with eachother unless

we're single so noone gets hurt, etc. His best friend moved into

town from Montana last month and we were instantly drawn to

eachother. We flirt like crazy but nothing's happened. Two nights

ago I slept with my FWB but realized the next day "Dang, this could

mess with the relationship I want with the montana man!" I mean,

it does sound pretty bad that I slept with his best friend, huh?

Can I still pursue this relationship with the montana man or am I

deemed sloppy seconds?

[annie24]

maybe it is time to put an end to FWB?

[Meow18]

I agree with Annie24. Being FWB can ruin quite a lot as you have learned.

 

I doubt that montana guy will want to start anything with you knowing you slept with his friend. But who knows. Chances are though, he's not going to want a relationship with you if he thinks he can be FWB with you too.

[agent1607307371]

You can totally pursue montana man.

 

But yeah, the fwb would have to end because that would just be a car crash in waiting.

 

 

And you're not being slutty. You're taking care of yourself and hurting nobody.

[Relationship Coach]

You are not being slutty but you need to cut out the FWB and let him know that you are interested in his friend. This may cause you to lose your friendship with him but only you can decide what you are willing to risk. You might want to get to know Mr. Montana better before throwing the baby out with the bath water.

 

RC

[yeawutever]

You're not really slutty but having friends with benefit can ruin your repuatation in future relations or establishing friendship. Tell that guy that you are just interest in a friendship, if he doesn't listen, cut the contact with him. From there on, give yourself a chance to get to know the Montana guy.