How to treat a lady?

[annie24]

I like having the door opened for me.

[xtina]

Ok, I read some of the posts saying that you don't like it when guys open doors, pay for dinner, etc, etc.

 

How is a guy supposed to know that? Don't get me wrong. I believe in communication and sorting things out regarding how things should be done, but what we're talking here are fine details.

 

Even if I went on a first date I'd do that, because that's what guys are supposed to do, and generally it is expected by the girl. I mean if I don't open the door I'd feel guilty and make myself seem selfish, right?

But on the other hand doing these things might make a guy seem fake in a way?

 

Well, I usually tell the guy - nicely - that I'm not that kind of person, right away. They usually understand. However, I don't usually hang out with these kinda polite guys anyways Maybe in more future time, when I'm older and sutff, I would apreciate that, but not today.

[Spugly Fuglet]

Nole cowere once opened a door for an American woman

She said "But sir I am no lady"

To which he said

"It dos not matter I open this door becuse I am a gentleman"

 

(not 100% on it being Nole)

[confuzedboy89]

So is it safe to say that most women like a gentleman that will respect them, unless they say otherwise? Any other tips,opinions, thought's?

[xtina]

Well respect should be towards everyone. I agree with Fuglet's comment.

 

Every woman is different, and you have to discover that.

[yeawutever]

True, like the long time ago Golden Rules says: "Treat others how you would like to be treated". Applies to everyone.

[Markers]

well. There's no any official rules that would apply everywhere. Treat her the same you would want to be treated. Use your common sense..

[Luke Skywalker]

I'd recommend "How to Succeed with Women" by Ron Louis and David Copeland, they give lots of information and insights, on how women like to be treated - some people consider it old style as the 'cocky and funny' stuff seems to be the in thing now, but the book goes into detail on the 'little things' that make a difference in a seduction.

[xtina]

Bah books. I don't think a woman would like a man to follow the guides from a book.. but just to be themselves.

[Süsser Tod]

Bah books. I don't think a woman would like a man to follow the guides from a book.. but just to be themselves.

 

 

Heyy!! Liked your previous avatar better, it was scary!