Princess18 Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Just a quick question....liked this guy at work for ages and we kinda had a bit of a thing goin on- flirtin an stuff for about two years. We finally got together and had sex for the first time after 2 years of games and suspense. I was so turned on but he came after about 10 thrusts!! Is this because he finds me attractive/ has a problem/ hadnt masturbated in a while? or what? hope it shows that he finds me sexy.... Any advice? Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 It really has nothing to do with you, he just needs to learn how to control himself. Link to comment
kellbell Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Hey there, Sometimes it happens. It has nothing to do with you or him. Just the luck of the draw I guess. Next time, perhaps masterbating (referring to him) before you have sex, that usually helps him last longer. Good luck. Link to comment
sarge17 Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 He has 2 years of foreplay going on in his mind, so this has been building up for a while and his fantasy finally came true. I'm sure he finds you extremely attractive. hence the 10 strokes, he couldn't hold back any longer!!! It will get better. Link to comment
Holiday Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Be flattered. I think he digs you. Link to comment
Holiday Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Princess, is this the guy from this thread??? If so, guess that spark is not so one-sided afterall. Link to comment
Princess18 Posted June 28, 2006 Author Share Posted June 28, 2006 yessss it is the guy from that thread....i like him so much....the sex just kinda happened- nothing has started between us.....maybe hes just using me though Link to comment
Holiday Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Good, congratulations!!! You are a confident girl with lots going for you. If you're both enjoying yourselves, aren't you using him also? Even if you don't feel like his expectations might not match yours regarding the direction the relationship might go, he's still not really using you. He might be making the most of an opportunity but you decide if he uses you. If you want to figure out what he wants, ask him. It might be a little tough to approach him with questions like that and timing is everything, but it's quite possible he really likes you and wants things to go further. You're 20. Don't rush things, but don't offer things unless you feel like youre getting something out of it that you will always smile on when looking back. Link to comment
TiredMan Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Just a quick question....liked this guy at work for ages and we kinda had a bit of a thing goin on- flirtin an stuff for about two years. We finally got together and had sex for the first time after 2 years of games and suspense. I was so turned on but he came after about 10 thrusts!! Is this because he finds me attractive/ has a problem/ hadnt masturbated in a while? or what? hope it shows that he finds me sexy.... Any advice? Was a condom used? Link to comment
Princess18 Posted June 28, 2006 Author Share Posted June 28, 2006 no we didnt use a condom! Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 "Why did he only last 2 minutes?????" Survey says..... I wanted to say that there are many who do... and its an age old question we women ponder.. and guys stress over. There are probably a myriad of sites that talk about how a guy can prolong his errection. Stop/Start.... thinking about baseball stats. Doing the multiplication tables in his head... whatever. I don't know if they work though. Link to comment
itsthatguy Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 If my girlfriend is fairly close to coming and wants me to hold off for a little while longer the only thing that can keep me going is math. Multiplication tables go too fast, but if I can try and solve a few indefinite integrals in my head I can keep going for another minute or two! Link to comment
Holiday Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 If my girlfriend is fairly close to coming and wants me to hold off for a little while longer the only thing that can keep me going is math. Multiplication tables go too fast, but if I can try and solve a few indefinite integrals in my head I can keep going for another minute or two! Hilarious!!! I like the fast and furious approach. Link to comment
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