why are the girls this bad nowadays? what can i do? any good ones?

[adviceseekerandgiver7]

I've been through so many girls and I thought I had the one.. she was a clean girl claimed to not smoke drink too much etc.. we were planning a life together.. everything was fine.. i met her 7 months ago.. but guess what happened? everything was perfect and I called her up yesterday after her graduation and she flipped.. i knew she was gaining weight and she said she was just a little sick and it was some condition.. well it turns out the last time we hung out was a week ago.. she told me i could not come over as she broke her foot and that she would not attend her graduation that i was invited to.. well i called her on the phone and she went psycho on me for no reason.. well she just left me a voice-mail on my phone.. the reason for the weight gain is she is actually 8 months pregant by her ex boyfriend.. and she was stringing me along for 7 months to "get him back" she is 18 she is 28 im only 22 and she said i was too old! so she lied to me strung me along.. and was even trying to get me to marry her on the side so incase he ran i would have to pay for her and the kid.. the alimoney.. hes black and if she would have moved her was planning for him and his home boys to rob my place.

[CluelessGuy321]

#1.) Damn

#2.) There are many manipulative women out there. I think most are to degree, but she really really messed with you and I wouldn't take that crap.

#3.) And you say she wanted her ex and his friends to rob you?

 

Seriously, that is one messed up situation. Something that could end up costing someone's life in one or many ways.

[Lonelyinasmalltown]

OMG. that's absolutely terrible. Don't really know what to say except thank god you got out before you got completely entangled in her lies.

 

Stay strong man. You'll find a nice, SANE woman someday. You're still young, chalk this up to a learning experience and move on.

[CluelessGuy321]

Well, I'm also thinking.,.....where are you from? Sounds like you might be in an area of low-class people.

[yeawutever]

Yes, you're find those people all over, both men and women can be manipulative, just saty away from them when you see one or your guts instinct telling you something!!!!!!

[Beyondthesea]

Wow what a whirlwind! I am so sorry to hear that you went through this.

 

Always trust your gut instinct, I second that. If something isn't 'right' you are probably right in assuming there's something wrong.

 

There are nice women out there, I know because I know many who are friends with me and have dated jerks who are unmeasurably inhumane of them and their feelings. We've all been there bud.

 

Hope you are feeling better!

[adviceseekerandgiver7]

thank you guys