I miss my ex

[krissbrown]

I was seeing this guy for 3 years- nothing too serious. But we saw each other every weekend- were very close.

 

All of a sudden he tells me he has a girlfriend now and hes basically ignoring me, my calls, my emails..

 

Its been 6 months. i only called him twice and he said his girlfriend was there and put me on the phone to talk to her. I sent an email but got no reply after that. i got the hint and stopped contacting him

 

I felt put off by the whole thing.

I guess i should move on?

 

When we were seeing each other I didnt want a comitted relationship and he was crazy about me.

I guess i screwed up a good thing and a great guy.

[DN]

I guess i should move on?

 

Yes, afraid so. Six months is long enough to wait for someone.

[Lady Bugg]

He put you on the phone with her for what?? To prove he's really got a g/f??

Tacky.

 

I know it hurts but as DN said..six months is a long time to wait or pine for someone. He's not worth it believe me.

[chblueguy]

yea, i'd say move on. i did the same thing and realized i messed up and i should move on. maybe there will be a time when both of you will be free to get back on track, but for now, move on from it.

[krissbrown]

Yeah its pretty tacky, i guess he did it so I would back off or prove hes got a girlfriend.

Oh well, yea ill try to forget him.

[bobo85]

I was seeing this guy for 3 years- nothing too serious. But we saw each other every weekend- were very close.

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I'm not trying to bash or flame you but you were seeing this guy for 3 years and it wasn't too serious? It sounds like to me this guy was just using you, stringing you along until he got bored or until he found someone else. I agree with DN, you have to move on and forget this loser.

 

People say that the most critcal points of a relationship are 3 months, 6 months and one year and two years.

 

3 months- should be getting to the point where you guys are thinking of becoming exclusive. This is usually the point where if you want to continue to date this person or end things quick.

 

6 months- Honeymoon stage is almost over and real personalities begin to shine through. This is a big test for all couples. Here you guys are probably mentioning the future between you two.

 

1 year - Wow one year has gone by. You are now in a very serious relationship. You probably already met his/her family. You probably are talking about marriage and kids and what you guys want in a husband/wife.

 

2 years - Do i hear wedding bells? This is the time where most couples get engaged or plan to get married. You guys might even start living together.

 

This is not for all couples but its a generalization.

[zpivat]

Hi krissbrown,

 

I feel for you.....I can't believe he did that to you, and I wholeheartedly wish that you'll soon be able to completely move on and start everything from a clean slate. I'm going through an almost very similar situation with you, and I can totally understand how you feel.........it sucks big time and it's so bad how we've no power to change anything. Feel free to PM me if you would like to share more.

 

All the best, and God bless you.

[krissbrown]

Well it wasnt too serious because he was busy with his career, me with school and i wasnt sure if i wanted to be exclusive with him, we never had sex...

 

so i think he found someone who really wanted him and dropped me.