musicguy Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I've been trying to find out what a "soulmate" really is. Can some give me a pretty good definition of what a soulmate is? Link to comment
ElektraHere Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I dont know if that exists? If you find out let me in on it. I think that there are kindred spirits but soulmates not buying it. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I think a soulmate is one who can understand you fully and someone you can share your life in the fullest extent. I dont think soulmates really exist because no one can understand another person completely. We are all very different and have different nuances that change. Link to comment
PRSOV Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 You don't actually believe what happens in the movies do you? ^o) Link to comment
tmp0620 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I don't think it's anything mystical, just someone you click with... Someone you get along with really well. You compliment each other...very well. Link to comment
LiquidCherry Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I used to believe that everyone had a soulmate, that there was someone out there that would be perfect for you and you were destined to be with them. It was very romantic. I thought I found my soulmate. Then I found out I was wrong. Rinse and repeat. I find the belief in soulmates to be sort of depressing. I like the idea of a sexy best friend I also happen to be in love with much better. Link to comment
ElektraHere Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Right now I am starting to believe love doesnt even exist. In my case anyway. Yeah for those that have found it or found you. Link to comment
Ash Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Love exists .. soulmates exist. Often you love your soulmate. Often your soulmate may not even be your mate. Your soulmate is the person you have a connection with that you can't describe to anybody else in words. It's a feeling of belonging, of knowing, of trusting, of understanding. Perhaps it's like belief and religeon. You believe in it, so it's very real to you. Soulmates are very much like that. Link to comment
hosswhispra Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Love exists .. soulmates exist. Often you love your soulmate. Often your soulmate may not even be your mate. Your soulmate is the person you have a connection with that you can't describe to anybody else in words. It's a feeling of belonging, of knowing, of trusting, of understanding. A soulmate is someone who you 'see' your own reflection in.... hosswhispra Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 A soulmate is an idealistic expression of what people want their partners to be. In that sense im sure you can get the general idea. Link to comment
lillady898 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 A soulmate, in my opinion, is someone you have a deep connection with. I definetly don't believe that's limited to only one person. I've never really been one to use that term. Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 i dont really take in things that are said in movies, but i watched Wedding crashers recently, and owen wilson says a beautiful quote, i know this is a bit off the subject but he says "Love is your souls recognition of its counterpoint" ahhhh Link to comment
Kevin T Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 A soul mate? Hmm... Someone who completes you, loves you as you are with all their heart, whom you share a deep unspoken bond with. I'm starting to believe it is either a) a crock or b) something not everyone has. Link to comment
musicguy Posted February 22, 2006 Author Share Posted February 22, 2006 thanks for your answers guys. I dunno, I'm all sketchy about soulmate thing too. Do people meet "for a reason"? Link to comment
lillady898 Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Do people meet "for a reason"? If I believe that destiny controlled our lives, then I would say definetly, yes. But, I believe in coincidence mainly. What becomes of a coincidence is all up to myself and the cooperation of others. I guess you can say, though, that anyone you met who made an impact on your life had a "purpose" so to speak. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 Easy definition for a soulmate: the person you marry and spend the rest of your life, and in my mind all eternity, with. You can say that a soulmate is someone who completes you, who fills an empty spot in your life. You can say a soulmate is someone who motivates and encourages you, give your life meaning. You can say a soulmate is someone who unconditionally loves you and who understands you. But really, a soulmate can't be defined. I think people too often try to define these things and thus lose track of what they really are. It's not something you find or define. It's something that comes into your life and which you just feel. People do meet each other for a reason. But it is up to us to determine what that reason is. Link to comment
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