Hunny1607307342 Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 = EMOTIONAL BREAK-DOWN!!! Cannot handle. What does she look like? Is she prettier than me? Does he say all those things he used to say to me to her? Of course he does, but he didn't he mean those words when he said them to me, so does that mean he doesn't mean them when he says them to her? Will he stay with her for a long time? He probably saw her whilst having this unofficial relationship with me, because otherwise HOW can he move on so quickly, he obviously never cared about me. Basically he lead me on for a few months, made out with me, all the rest of it and kept reassuring me we'll be official when his exams finish. To cut the story short he told me a lot of lies and it ended in him stating we should just be friends. I see him everyday at college. Revenge: flirt, get him drunk, kiss him passionately, his girlfriend will find out he's a cheat (better sooner than later), she'll dump him, he'll be heart-broken just like I am. I probably sound like a pyscho lol any words of wisdom guys?xxx Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 The best revenge is living well. In other words, move on, be successful, and find a 5x more handsome guy to make out with Link to comment
Hunny1607307342 Posted February 16, 2006 Author Share Posted February 16, 2006 Thanks annie. You're right, I will be living it up infront of him, smiling and being happy. Of only making out with a hottie 5x hotter was that easy! Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 To cut the story short he told me a lot of lies and it ended in him stating we should just be friends. I see him everyday at college. Revenge: flirt, get him drunk, kiss him passionately, his girlfriend will find out he's a cheat (better sooner than later), she'll dump him, he'll be heart-broken just like I am. Remember these words my friend: what goes around comes around. The toughest part here is seeing this chump everyday...but in the future when you do see him...remember what I wrote above and what you wrote about this new girl dumping him... Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 I will be living it up infront of him, smiling and being happy. You don't necessarily need to play games like this...just let it go... Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Don't play games and live it up for the sake of getting revenge on him. Do it because you want to for yourself. If he lied to you, then he will eventually get his just desserts. This other girl will be treated the same way. You shouldn't be jealous of her. If anything, you should feel sorry for her. There is nothing wrong with being hurt or angry if that is how you feel. See that this guy isn't worth the effort to even think about. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Thanks annie. You're right, I will be living it up infront of him, smiling and being happy. Of only making out with a hottie 5x hotter was that easy! To clarify, I didn't mean to act happy infront of him, I meant to really, move on, from him, and find a better person to date. Don't act happy, be happy! Link to comment
red10 Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Hunny - your first thoughts are my thoughts exactly - it's amazing! but i agree with Annie - we both need to move on - and focus on ourselves and look forward to meeting new men who in fact will be 5x hotter that our ex - and we no longer will have to act happy, cause we truly will BE happy lol. it's way to easy to say that though. but it helps for a minute at least and eventually it will be true. Link to comment
friscodj Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 To clarify, I didn't mean to act happy infront of him, I meant to really, move on, from him, and find a better person to date. Don't act happy, be happy! We know...we know...you cool... Link to comment
Hunny1607307342 Posted February 16, 2006 Author Share Posted February 16, 2006 Thanks guys I'll try and be happy! It's early days yet though...plus seeing him everyday - letting go might take a WHILE. One fine day I will though! Link to comment
puccie08 Posted March 12, 2006 Share Posted March 12, 2006 omfg girl u explained everything im goin through to a T!!!!!! man i feel lyk im goin crazy thanx believe it or not u helped me n readin wat other pplz rote helps alot too but girl u just got to be strong if he couldnt see the best thing right in front of him just forgive, forget and him wish him luck cuz shell neva be u and theres someone out there for u so the more time that u stay stuck in the past the more likely of missin something wonderful right in front of u my friend sent me this and i always go baq and read it over and over again to feel better i hope it does the same for u. As we grow up, we learn that even that ONE person that wasnt supposed to ever let you down probably will .You will have ur heart broken more than once And its harder everytime. You will break hearts, too . So remember how it felt when yours was broken.You will fight with your best friend. You blame a new love for things an old one did. Youu will cry because time is passing too fast. And you will eventually loose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much and love like you never been hurt because every 60 seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you will never get back so now that you read this think of the all the friends you lost& all the mistakes you did & just for a minute think if they were still a part of your life how many moments you spent angry you could of spent it laughing with them, everyone needs somebody..learn to forgive Dont say you love me unless its true because i might do somethin stupid like believe you. Link to comment
avman Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 puccie08 I really think you should read this Link to comment
queenofvalidation Posted March 31, 2006 Share Posted March 31, 2006 Hi It's taken me quite some time, but I have an analogy that may help... You are a beautiful walnut dining table. He is a beautiful oak chair. But, it's not a matching set. If she is a beautiful oak dining table, they may be a matching set. What are the chances? Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted April 1, 2006 Share Posted April 1, 2006 Owww baby, I was once a multiple cheater, and I certainly DID get what was due coming to me, and I confidently predict he will too. Karma does not spare cheating. It really doesn't. Link to comment
jayjay7 Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 puccie08 I really think you should read this ] Good one, just skipped through that post 'cos I couldn't read it! Anyway, the same thing happened to me in college. Got off with this cute guy, considered myself lucky, then realised he didn't even care about me and didn't want to tell anyone about us. He lied a lot to get me into bed. Basically, he then told me he just wanted to be friends and I got very upset. Had to see him around college all the time which was hard. But I got over him pretty quickly, you know why? Cos I found someone a million times better, and at college too, and I became very happy. I know right now, any girl he comes into contact with will be hurt like he hurt me. So, just ignore him, find someone else, and he'll regret everything. Link to comment
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