Marthalandnetzero.com Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Hi all, Ok, this gonna be very shorty,2 year relationship, he say the word when it was just 4 months into relation, and yes he stills says it and seems very affectinate, just the opposite. First time he say it, I was like "Um, ok, thanx, I appreciate it", but I never say it back. Maybe it's the way i was raised, my folks would show their love mainly through actions, and as u can see, I find that more important than words. I'm a high believer in the saying that actions speak louder than words, but I dunno if I should say the word just once. Another question "Is he really waiting for me to just say it, cuz if that's the case then it would be like I'm force to say it? Link to comment
DN Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 How would it be if he thought that you didn't love him and walked away from you. How would you feel then? If you love him - say it. Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Never be forced to say it. Only say it if you mean it. Link to comment
Marthalandnetzero.com Posted January 2, 2006 Author Share Posted January 2, 2006 Do you love him? Off course I do, why on earth would I be in a 2 yr relationship if I didn't, it wouldn't make sense. I'm gonna see him today, maybe this is the right time. Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Well, gosh, I don't know. Some people stick around in relationships for a long time for reasons other than love. Maybe you should tell him what you told us - that actions to you are more important than words, but that you do love him, even if you don't say it all the time. I bet he'd be happy to hear that. Link to comment
DN Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Other than being with him for two years, what actions have you taken to show him that you love him? Link to comment
AlwaysNeedHelp Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Hi Ofcourse, actions does speak louder than words.. However it doesnt mean we ignore words.. Words are also way of expressing feelings.. Actions speak louder than words, no one said words doesnt speak at all.. So if you love him.. Tell him, only when you feel its the right time.. Link to comment
Relationship Coach Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Bet you can't just say it once! Love is an infectious word that will consume your daily vocabulary. If you love someone, let them know. Are you afraid to drop the "L" bomb? Guys love action but words do mean a lot! Say it if you mean it, because you want to say it. Link to comment
Amano Ginji Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 Put ur self in his shoes.How would u like it if for 2 years u keep on telling him dat u love him.But he never says it even once.All he says is he appreciates it. U no deep inside that he loves u from his actions.But wouldnt u just love to hear it atleast once!. Like everyone said,Say it if u feel upto it.But its wrong to not say it if u really love him.Cuz in a way,everytime he says da "L" word,he wishes u had said it too!.If u love him,Say it not as a formality,But because u really do love him! Hope m rite! Link to comment
Marthalandnetzero.com Posted January 19, 2006 Author Share Posted January 19, 2006 Guess wut peeps, I say it two days ago, he really liked it. Link to comment
Amano Ginji Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 wohoo! Marthaland.Good to hear dat u decided to say it. U musta felt good too Link to comment
DN Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Did you like saying it? and the reaction you got from him? Link to comment
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