Saw her, what now?

[iamconfused5302]

Hi there,

Well my ex and I have been broken up for the past 3 weeks. I saw her yesterday, I was drunk. She was automatically assumed that I was drunk because of her, obviously it was not because of her. So later on, I found out she was concerned. On the ride home, she was rubbing my leg all throughout the ride and babying me. I am still continuing the no contact thing. On the weekends she ask me and friends to come out. I dont know, Im confused. Im hoping, we can be officially together soon. Thanks

 

Take care

[darkblue]

If you're doing NC with her; why was she in your company?

[DN]

If I read your previous posts right, she said she wanted to take it slow and you were going to go no contact.

 

That seems a strange reaction - why not just go slow as she wanted for a while and see what happened.

 

In any event, I think you should phone her, thank her for her concern last night, say you are fine and then see what she says. Don't ask her out unless you get a strong feeling that she wants that and don't talk about the relationship - let her do that if she wants.

[heloladies21]

You shuld be doing real No Contact, not this some contact thing. You're still confused and need to let your emotions calm down. Otherwise the situation will not resolve.