What does she (dumper) really Mean??

[DN]

Good for you. In this situation you should do what is best for you - she broke up with you and she should accept the consequences of that decision, including the fact that you may not want to be her friend.

[Boomer]

I would suggest to cut off all the contact . Why would you want to be her friend?? I do not think you would like her to see started dating someone and tell you stories about it. Show her that you do not need her. Respect yourself.Cut losses now and move on.

 

Do not try to analyze and come up for reasons. Many times the dumper will come up with 'comfortable' reasons and not reveal the real one such as meeting someone.

[Hawk]

Why would you want to settle for less than you deserve by being her friend - she gets to win AGAIN. She cuts off the very thing that you want and keep you as her "best friend".

 

I am with Boomer, I really think it is time for the moment to cut all ties and move on.

[BONO]

Think about it. What do "best friends" normally do. I'll give you an example. On of my best fiends happens to be a girl ( no past relationship history with me) I go out to bars and spend time with her and her boyfriend at weekends and have been doing so for many years. CAN YOU DO THAT ??? HMMMMMMM !