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[pizzalunchabie]

ok well i am in love and i dont know if i need to let him go iv been trying to let him go but i cant i have been dead for a week what happened was basically we got into a huge fight and he hurt me a little but i lost it on him to i dont know wut to do i love him but i dont know what do do im going crazy

[smallworld]

What was the fight about? And how did he hurt you?

[pizzalunchabie]

well i was throwing him out in the middle of the night because he was lying to me behind my back but it was also about this guy who went up to him and said he made out with me it was a mess

[darkblue]

Lying to you about what?

 

And did you 'make out' with this guy?

[pizzalunchabie]

he was lieing to me about drugs and yes i did and he new that and it wa a long time ago when were were dating long distance but its been over 6 mounths since that happened

[darkblue]

And you denied it? (making out with this other guy)

 

What drugs is he/ did he use?

[smallworld]

It looks like TRUST (or the lack thereof) is at the heart of your relationship problems. Like any other fight, if you want things to work out, someone has to have the courage to be the first one to say "I'm sorry. Let's try to work things out."

 

You guys need to talk and find out what the real problems are. Does he have a drug problem? Is he seriously ready to give them up? Can he ever really trust you knowing that you cheated on him before? What can you both say or do that will prove to each other that you are both worthy of each other's trust and are willing to do what it takes to make things work?

[pizzalunchabie]

thanx alot for ansewering