indecisive girl

[sg1]

i'm 110% that this girl likes me but she's the indecisive type. her and I have known each other long enough where I figured she be able to open up to me ( unless other factors here that she's in college where college/career is one of her top goals and whatever else)

 

so in general a girl for example likes a guy alot,but that she's indecisive is it possible to get scared and hold back forever.

[Mun]

It's possible to get scared, hold back and lose the guy to a more decisive girl....and sometimes it happens that way.

 

If she has a good reason not to want a relationship right now ( like school) then you have to accept that and find someone who wants what you want. She may like you, but she is not making you a priority, that's gonna matter in the long run.

 

Best wishes!

[sg1]

muneca,

thanks for the response. I'm just asking ahead of time,so incase it does happen,so I won't freak out haha when you said it's possible to get scared and hold back. well is it also possible to get to a point where the person might start avoiding/ignoring overall like in person or AIM ( not answering IM or blocking) I know it may sound awful and I hope it doesn't happen but just curious in the general aspect. like it's too tough to deal with or so

[DRB]

yeah mate, I'm in your boat at the moment. Girl likes me, I like her but she won't get into a relationship.

 

Now I can understand bad timing but it can't be helped. Would they rather let you wait and risk losing you forever? I know I wouldn't risk losing a great girl cos it was a bad time.

 

Let us know how you go,I'm interested to know how this turns out.

[StarStruck]

Don't wait too long my friend. I waited for a year and a half for a real realtionship to just have her tell me I'm her world, she loves me so much she can't even explain it - but she can't commit. I learned my lesson in heartbreak, and am totally numb at this point.

 

If it's meant to be, bad timing or not, it will happen. Give it a little while but don't close off your other options, and protect yourself no matter how important she becomes to you. If things don't start to progress in a few months, do yourself a favor, and get on with your life.

 

I know this sounds harsh - but I hope you can learn from other's mistakes.