Boyfriend not interested in sex but is on porn sites.

[Beanie85]

I've been with boyfriend for 7 years and the first couple years were great. We had lots of sex but the last 4 years he claims he no longer thinks about sex. He's been dating sites and porn sites but he claims he's not interested in sex. To me that doesn't make sense. I've tried talking with him about it but he tells me the same thing that he's not interested.  I just don't understand why he's bs ING me. 

[Wiseman2]

9 minutes ago, Beanie85 said:

 last 4 years he claims he no longer thinks about sex. He's been dating sites and porn sites but he claims he's not interested in sex. 

Sorry this is happening. Do you live together? How old is he?  If he's on dating apps it sounds like he's cheating. Either way talking at him hasn't helped.

Porn is the least of your problems if he's checked out and on dating apps. He's interested in sex, but with others. Please get tested for STDs. Why tolerate his dating apps? 

 

[Beanie85]

Yes, we do live together. He is 61 yrs old and I'm 53. I guess I need too make some decisions. 

[MissCanuck]

4 hours ago, Beanie85 said:

He's been dating sites

Why are you still with a man who is checking out other options? 

 

[smackie9]

You waited 4 years to ask for advice? You need to get out now.

[catfeeder]

He means he’s not interested in sex with you. He’s obviously interested in pursuing it with others. I’d dump him.