Mr. Sub Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 I am on my 3rd NC day. Joining other on a 30-day challenge. Like I expected, she emails me todays. But I said I will not read any of the emails, so all of them go directly to the delect folder. I do miss her. Felt terrible each morning getting up at 5am. But I am hanging there. She is back with her ex now. That's why she only emails me during weekdays. I will keep it up. Link to comment
WebChick Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 Way to go Sub!!!! Hang in there...don't be the "fallback guy".... We're here for you!!! Link to comment
DN Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 Well done, keep it up - you can do it. =D> Link to comment
Rainy Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 well done, hang onm in there, you are worth more and deserve much better Link to comment
nikhilgore Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 Great job sub. You are doing really well however I would recommend that you empty the trash after you put the emails in the trash. I can assure you that you will have moments of weakness and you do not want to have the emails sitting in the trash at that time. Best of luck to you. Link to comment
Lonelyinasmalltown Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 I know it's hard but the reward at the end (healing) is so worth it. Keep it up, I know you can do it! Link to comment
HajiMaji Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 Way to go dude!! Youve got it in the bag! Link to comment
WebChick Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 I hope day 3 finds everyone strong and in good spirits!! I got called in for a bit for work today....but it wasn't too bad...I still managed to enjoy my day...although some shopping would have been NICE Tonight I'm going to dinner and a movie....then back to the workweek... I am thinking this week will be quite easy for me....then it will probably get a little rough. I will try to post if I get an "urge" lol... as Ihope everyone else will, but I am really trying to just keep my time occupied as much as possible. I'm curious also....what time of day is hardest for most to maintain NC? I have to say for me it's night...and when I know he is working and will get my email quickly....UGH!!. Oh and...when I drink of course LOL... I won't lie lol... Link to comment
Mr. Sub Posted May 31, 2005 Author Share Posted May 31, 2005 For me the hardest time of the day would be in the morning. It is like waking up realize she is gone. Link to comment
DN Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 I hope day 3 finds everyone strong and in good spirits!! I got called in for a bit for work today....but it wasn't too bad...I still managed to enjoy my day...although some shopping would have been NICE Tonight I'm going to dinner and a movie....then back to the workweek... I am thinking this week will be quite easy for me....then it will probably get a little rough. I will try to post if I get an "urge" lol... as Ihope everyone else will, but I am really trying to just keep my time occupied as much as possible. I'm curious also....what time of day is hardest for most to maintain NC? I have to say for me it's night...and when I know he is working and will get my email quickly....UGH!!. Oh and...when I drink of course LOL... I won't lie lol... I hope you are not drinking on your own, or too much with other people, that would be a grave error. It might ease your pain temporarily but it could end up causing you a whole lot of different pain and grief. Please don't. Link to comment
WebChick Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 No no..NOT drinking a lot, alone or otherwise. I know when drink I get giddy, and I think everything is rosy...lol. I think a lot of people get this way when they drink, and let their guard down, and don't have the ability to be as strong as they should. thereforeeee ...I am avoiding alcohol during this phase Hope this clears things up... Link to comment
DN Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 No no..NOT drinking a lot, alone or otherwise. I know when drink I get giddy, and I think everything is rosy...lol. I think a lot of people get this way when they drink, and let their guard down, and don't have the ability to be as strong as they should. thereforeeee ...I am avoiding alcohol during this phase Hope this clears things up... Cool!! Link to comment
Dakota6560 Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 Great going sub, you are doing something that I don't believe I can (and haven't). Keep up the will power and I see you moving on and being very happy in life. As for web chick's question, I would have to say during the day because we used to talk during lunch or when I would get off of work. That has been very hard on me but I guess we manage. Link to comment
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