Work crush

[Jnc1207]

LYEDITDELETEREPORTSat 18 Dec, 2021 02:16 am

Sooo I work as a nurse at a hospital and I have a crush on my coworker. Unfortunately, we dont work together as much. A few months ago, I went bowling with him and my other coworkers. When we all left, he offered to drive me home because my home is on the way to an event he was going to with his friends after we went bowling. I always thought he was cute but i started to develop a crush on him after that. 

A few months ago, i told him a patient called me “baby”. He asked me and was like “oh you like being called that?”. I told him “i do but def not by him” lol 😂

A few nights ago, we were charting next to each other at the nurses station. He was asking me questions about myself like what i like to do outside of work, which i thought indicated he was interested in me but i wasnt sure. What do i do? Any thoughts? What does this mean? Lol

[Rose Mosse]

He seems interested but is it worth pursuing or is it better leaving it as it is?

Fantasize all you want if you like. It doesn’t have to affect your work space or your professionalism while at work. 

[lostandhurt]

He is interested.  In what I have no idea though.  Casual dating, hook up, FWB or relationship but you won't know that until you go on a proper date.

  If you are interested then make it easy for him to ask you out.  The next time you are talking ask him what he likes to do outside of work and when he answers pick one of the things and tell him that is cool and you would really like to do that some day blah blah blah.  I am sure you know how to flirt with a guy.  Or just hand him a piece of paper with your number on it and tell him if you would like to get a drink some time to give you a call"   Women can ask men out too.

As far as workplace romance goes people will tell you it is to risky and all that but it happens all the time plus you work at a hospital and my friends that work at hospitals have told me all the stories of the dating, romance, hook ups, flings and one night stands that all originated inside the walls of the hospital.

Be brave and at the very least make it known you think he is cute, it will get back to him.

Lost

[Wiseman2]

3 hours ago, Jnc1207 said:

LYEDITDELETEREPORTSat 18 Dec, 2021 02:16 am

^^ What does this mean?

Do you take breaks together? A ride home and random chitchat at work happens.

However first find out if he has a GF then decide if dating co-workers is a good idea.

If he's not asking you out, there's a reason. It may be he's not interested in messing up his job with workplace romances or he's not interested or he's seeing someone.