I want my love back

[Ankur]

We both were in a very healthy long distance relationship but all of a sudden my girl friend broke up with me. She is a divorcee and currently preparing for judicial magistrate examination. I was supportive too but I just wanted some time to talk to her. We have planned our future together, we discussed about the situations may occur marrying a divorcee woman and I am ready to face any challenges just because I love her very much. I know she has gone through a lot or still going through alot. But my one mistake has ruiend our relationship. Now she broke up with me stating her focus is now only on her career. Its been more than a month she is ghosting me. She blocked me everywhere. I am helpless. I am left with praying God to sort out everything. I am ready to wait for her until she completes her goal. Kindly advice.

[reinventmyself]

have you two ever met in person?

[Ankur]

1 hour ago, reinventmyself said:

have you two ever met in person?

Not yet..

[SooSad33]

How was this long distance thing 'healthy'?

How long did you two talk/ been involved?

Sounds to me like she wasn't that much into all of this, by ending things with you. ( and has not all to do with just her studies..).

[Rose Mosse]

2 hours ago, Ankur said:

But my one mistake has ruiend our relationship. Now she broke up with me stating her focus is now only on her career. Its been more than a month she is ghosting me. She blocked me everywhere. I am helpless.

You're in denial, not helpless. If you haven't met yet this isn't healthy. You're too attached to someone whom you don't know in reality. What was the mistake you mentioned above?

[Wiseman2]

39 minutes ago, Ankur said:

Not yet..

Is she still married and just bored for online attention?  Delete and block her from all your social media and messaging apps.

Anyone who contacts you from a distance and refuses to meet in a timely fashion is a red flag. Scammer, catfish, in another relationship, etc. Don' get caught up in that.

 Instead invest in realistic dating with real-life, real women in person who you can meet within a few messages. Running away from life hiding in cyberfantasies is something you can change.