solabooey Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 After 3years apart, I have decided to tell my ex that I want to reconcile... I have a work number and phone number for my ex, what's the best way to reach out? I'm really nervous, he means the world to me I better not throw it all away at this time and lose the one good thing that has ever happened to me. I don't know how to break the ice.I'm 26 and he is 27 and he lives about a fifteen minute drive from me... Thanks were currently in NC Link to comment
Chris12189 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 Who initiated the breakup? Was it messy? I would just call him and see if hes willling to meet for coffee/ice cream and talk Link to comment
Iggy5129 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 How do you know he's even single and available. And also maybe after 3 years he doesn't want to reconcile. I wouldn't. After 3 years I'm usually totally moved on from someone. Link to comment
Carus Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 After 3years apart, I have decided to tell my ex that I want to reconcile... Heh. Oh if only it were that easy... I'm really nervous, he means the world to me I better not throw it all away at this time and lose the one good thing that has ever happened to me. This is the bit that worries me. It smacks of desperation and may send you into a bit of a downward spiral if you don't get the result you are seeking.... Consider how you'll feel if he's with someone and having a baby. If that upsets you a lot, I would proceed with caution.... Other than that, I would love to see a successful recon... They're a bit of a rarity. Carus* Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 How do you know he's even single and available. And also maybe after 3 years he doesn't want to reconcile. I wouldn't. After 3 years I'm usually totally moved on from someone. All of the above. OP, do you know his current relationship status? Link to comment
jellybean2018 Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 I attempted this recently and really wished I hadn't! lol... Link to comment
solabooey Posted August 5, 2018 Author Share Posted August 5, 2018 He agreed to meet! Link to comment
solabooey Posted August 5, 2018 Author Share Posted August 5, 2018 Im not inlove wih him or anything Link to comment
solabooey Posted August 15, 2018 Author Share Posted August 15, 2018 I attempted this recently and really wished I hadn't! lol... Why do you think so? Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted August 15, 2018 Share Posted August 15, 2018 Did you meet up with him, OP? Link to comment
solabooey Posted August 19, 2018 Author Share Posted August 19, 2018 yes we met. just met for coffee and I told him I really missed him and it was so good to finally get to catch up we hung out for 3 hours but then finally the coffee place was closing and we had to go. He walked me to my car, ( white jeep Cherokee!) and then I told him about the super power that I had which I could make earthquakes happen and then right as I was telling him about this, an earthquake happened! OMG!!!! xxx Link to comment
solabooey Posted August 20, 2018 Author Share Posted August 20, 2018 Now we have agreed to meet up soon Again ? in Lombok where the earthquakes keep happening. Im not sure about this one. I mean we were talking and it was kind of nice that he met me after I was like an hour late and we talked and I said "If the answer is no can I change the world?" Link to comment
Chris12189 Posted August 20, 2018 Share Posted August 20, 2018 just take things slow and dont rush into an ultimatum Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted August 20, 2018 Share Posted August 20, 2018 Now we have agreed to meet up soon Again ? in Lombok where the earthquakes keep happening. Im not sure about this one. I mean we were talking and it was kind of nice that he met me after I was like an hour late and we talked and I said "If the answer is no can I change the world?" I don't understand what you mean by this. Link to comment
solabooey Posted August 21, 2018 Author Share Posted August 21, 2018 His name means world in my language, where I am originally from. It's a joke get it, change the world? like change the baby. Link to comment
solabooey Posted August 21, 2018 Author Share Posted August 21, 2018 just take things slow and dont rush into an ultimatum yeah, I know what you are saying and I totally get that I am in undiscovered territory... Link to comment
solabooey Posted August 30, 2018 Author Share Posted August 30, 2018 Well status update: I called him and he answered and then said, I have to go get a haircut, can call you back?[] he called then I drove to a shopping mall and then we talked and talked and talked... Link to comment
solabooey Posted August 31, 2018 Author Share Posted August 31, 2018 Why did I do it? Well I know a lot of people are questioning my view on this subject of getting your ex's back, it's a pretty nice ride where life begins like the sea; When both my feet leave the ground Will you be there where the skyline ends? When I take flight When the blackest night calls me home Will you be there when the dream begins? The smallest drop in the ocean Can start a wave of emotion My dear, I wish I could hold you safe in my arms From here to eternity Alone I'll know you'll be waiting When the moon beams lean down to kiss me Cause your beauty burns through the darkness Crystal and clear From here to eternity When I let go When I release all my cares Will you be there where the nightmare ends? When I drift off When the silver sun calls my name Will you be there where the light begins? The smallest drop in the ocean Can start a wave of emotion My dear, I wish I could hold you safe in my arms From here to eternity Alone I'll know you'll be waiting When the moon beams lean down to kiss me Cause your beauty burns through the darkness Crystal and clear From here to eternity Link to comment
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