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Everything posted by RayRay63

  1. How much to buy the site? Pretty easy question guys. I guess we are talking six figures, so lets chat. There is one thing though. That moderror named Kammuurj? Are you actually playing him, and if so why? You need to sack him before anyone will engage with such an arrogant self important . He is a big downer on the value of this web site.
  2. There are various ways to contribute to the site
  3. "Careful, he might hear you." But don't pull your punches. Who knows, maybe this place will get more reasonable moderators. Maybe I'll be back.
  4. I can't go there. I just can't comment, sorry. By the way. I think engaging with other posters is great, and good fun. I think you are a great poster and would love to disagree with you and debate it. But I am not allowed to do that.
  5. OP, I agree with DF, which means there is no way you should just junk this guy, give him a chance. I think posters who come in here and tell you to reject him "because the girl shouldn't ask three times woo woo", with no consideration of the objective facts on what you report, are just trying to impose their own emotional expierences and anger on you. Not to mention their learned views of what we all be looking like, playing happy familys. Please be your own person.
  6. Oh man, do you love this lady, and want you babies with her... then you go all in. Just do it. I did. It didn't work out in the end. We got divorced. The oldest is about 20 ish, sitting on my sofa right now, watching Pulp Fiction. Drinking some beer and eating pizza. It is outstanding in every way. Hell, if his mother was here we might all just eat some pizza, have a larf, and get on with life. A man should have children, and be responsible for them. Get on with it.
  7. So she should ask now? Or is he playing "the game" wrong. Not her turn? So turn away and lose the opportunity forever? is that your advice?
  8. I am sorry Holly, I am no longer allowed to respond specifically/directly to other poster's posts in any way that might be construed as disagreement or rudeness.
  9. Yes please, do this. Do not go with the knee jerk wave-him-off reaction that posters have been quite wrongly telling you.
  10. We're talking twice, and maybe the lady taking the lead a little. Come on Bats, not much risk and the reward could be magnificent. She needs to pop it out there. If its a no go, she moves on. Nothing much lost.
  11. I think that is a good thing to do. This could be a great family unit, and the OP could be the best, gentlest father who ever held his baby. Mate, you are going to get criticized, no matter what you do. Posters here will do it with their usual knee jerk reactions. Tough it out buddy. Do it for your child. Don't die wondering.
  12. Please don't feel bludgeoned into destroying your marriage by any strident posts on this thread. Take into account not only your partners' behavior - but also your own. Ask yourself this question: "Are those posters unknowingly projecting their own relationship disappointments on to me?" Do not do something now that you will come to regret.
  13. I miss Katrina1980. Shes said her piece, you agreed or not. She didn't go running to the monitors and whining if she had a disagreement. Katrina1980 was a good poster.
  14. TD, it is what it is and they are trying to make a go of it. I hope they can. I think they should give it a go.
  15. Good for you. Do it. As you say he is a shy guy. maybe he just needs some encouragement. Perhaps a bit of a push. He sounds like a beautiful human being with a quiet, low foot print on this earth. Don't wait for him to initiate. Life is too short for the "he has to make the first move" games being advocated here.
  16. Ask him out again. Don't limit him to one day. Sit with him and work out the date. He isn't very good at this, so do the work.
  17. I don't always agree with Billie28 but on this occasion, I concur.
  18. You need to think some more about what amounts to a reach out. If its organizing a kid play day, its not a reach out. If its a breadcrumb to provoke you, its not a reach out. If you do the right thing and terminate the kiddie play days, it will simplify matters.
  19. As a man, it depends on whether I am having a nice relaxed relationship with you without stress, or whether you misquote me and try to pick fights for the sake of it, or whine about stuff you knew about me before we got together. For example, if you knew I was a self employed professional, and worked 6-7 days 12hrs each per week, and that's how I rolled, before we were an item, you could not be telling me to change and pushing for it, or I would not believe you when it came to your statements on the topic of marriage. If things are going well, and we listen to each other's communications, and there is a general feeling of companionship that I don't want to lose, then maybe I'll accept your assurances. But in the back of mind I'll suspect we are borrowing time, and, eventually, this issue is going to come up again.
  20. That is not a reach out. Probably just logistics. It might be a breadcrumb, so she can provoke a reaction from you, and then punish you some more for hitting her. If so, you are a puppet dancing to her tune.
  21. She did not reach out, she contacted you about logistics. My advice remains the same as in your other thread. You keep talking about her "reaching out" to you. She has not done any such thing. She contacted you about logistics. Kids, tidying up items. Each time she does this you misinterpret it as something it isn't. Then you get all weak/needy/clingy and bombard her (her expressed view - "sending more msgs than u should") with "I love you" and "Lets go out together" messages. You are begging, pleading and making a fool of yourself. You are validating her decision to give you the boot. You are annoying her and making her angry, probably why she mentioned your ex after you, yet again, asked her out. You physically assaulted this woman, you are lucky she didn't call the cops. What are you going to do when she calls you to arrange kids' time, and tells you her new boyfriend is doing the pick up? You need to take the advice that has been given multiple times on this thread, because you are carrying on like an immature prat and in the process ruining what little chance (probably none, in truth) that you ever had of reconciling with her For a start, pay attention to Einstein's definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. No contact, strict no contact, and no kid dates, because you can't help yourself - see above. Read this thread and all the advice in it again. And get some help with the anger issues, and no more violence against women.
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