Kara782 Posted May 4, 2018 Author Share Posted May 4, 2018 Me and him both in europ, our families are in our home country Link to comment
Minikimini Posted May 4, 2018 Share Posted May 4, 2018 I have already finished my education with phd degree. And i m working on getting my Diplom recognized hier and find suitable job... but it takes times and lot of studying and that s what I m focusing about now... but he keep asking me for marriage again and again.... and "let us live here and get away from them" he can live without his family but I cant... Say "No, I do not want to get married right now. We have too much ground we need to cover before that and I need my family's blessing. Besides, why are you in such a rush to get married? You're not ready to support a wife." Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted May 4, 2018 Share Posted May 4, 2018 Where is the guy you really love? Do you need both your families blessing to marry anyone? Can you move back home to your family and country?Me and him both in europ, our families are in our home country Link to comment
Kara782 Posted May 4, 2018 Author Share Posted May 4, 2018 I start wondering why I am thinking about anyone but me! his family and how they will be angry if we will marry... and they deserve it... I know he loves me and I love him and we are best friends befor all of this.. I cant give up my soulmate ... I m too sensitive and cant bare fights and this kind of life but it seems that we have to ignore or dont care about some people in our lives.. I have never thought that one day I would be in a such situation but really I didn't nothing to them they want to control everything or jealous I dont know Link to comment
Kara782 Posted May 4, 2018 Author Share Posted May 4, 2018 He want to marry because it s rediculous that two poeple in love living apart and they could be together instead.. we know each other since 8 years and we are together 3years and half now... so it s not that easy to let years go like that.. I dont know even why I m defending the idea of marriage and keep refusing his proposal :( Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted May 4, 2018 Share Posted May 4, 2018 You claim 2 men proposed to you. Marry who? The rich guy you keep rejecting or the other poor guy you love? Isn't it your family who is angry if you marry? I know he loves me and I love him and we are best friends befor all of this.. I cant give up my soulmate Link to comment
Kara782 Posted May 4, 2018 Author Share Posted May 4, 2018 There is no 2 guys! There is one and only.. his family assumed that my family refused because at the time he was student and cant afford a wedding... and they think that I want rich guy or money... but it s not true there are many other "more rich and perfect grooms " proposed to me and I refused and my family too.. they dont have that idea at all.. they want me to choose the one I love to live with him mylife.. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted May 5, 2018 Share Posted May 5, 2018 If you want to be with him and your parents approve, what is the problem?they want me to choose the one I love to live with him mylife.. Link to comment
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