I dont know whats going on

[Cicarti]

Hello, i didnt know wether to post it under cyber stuff or here, but i´m playing online and made some friends there, 2 of them are a couple. But here´s the thing; they have an "online relationship", never met or anything and it seemed (atleast they told so) that they did break up. I liked them both and tried to stay neutral but she was harassing him over stuff she bought for him, he said she insults him all the time and is allaround pretty nasty and i said to him "move on, you can find another" and all that stuff because he seemed really down (and to be honest i wasnt really nice with my words regarding her to him), but now they seem to got back together or atleast friends and i dont know how to behave. I´m pretty sure he´ll tell her what i said.

[Hollyj]

You don't even know these people. I wouldn't put too much weight into it. Do you have local friends?

[Cicarti]

Sure. Its just my favourite game and i dont want it to be ruined. Nothing more.

[Hollyj]

I see. Well, probably best to keep things to yourself when friends with both parties.

 

I will never understand how one can have a romantic relationship with someone you have never met.

[Hollyj]

Also, you have to wonder what's wrong with him, if he keeps on returning to someone who is abusive.

 

I doubt he will tell her, as you wouldn't have known about all of this, without him telling you about her.

[Cicarti]

Me neither but who am i to judge, if they´re having fun, well its their thing.

[Cicarti]

I dont know either. Thats why i said he should let it be and search for a nice girl in his area.

[Hollyj]

Nothing wrong with what you said.

[Hollyj]

If he starts talking about her again, change the subject. He is not in a healthy relationship.

[catfeeder]

Play the game and limit messaging to neutral stuff about the game or the weather.