cMarch Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 It all started January 19, 2018 when I told my ex boyfriend that I needed time to myself to think about what I wanted in life. He told me that he didn't want to do that and if I did then things won't be the same anymore, I ignored what he said and continued on with time for myself (But have still contacted him throughout the process). February 4th is when I decided I should get back with him, he told me that he now wants time to himself for at least a year. I know it was bad for me, but I kept constantly texting and begging him to come back (He responded once every few hours or days). I contacted him last night saying to meet me on my birthday to at least make my day much better, but he rejected. I told him to either call me or see me for my birthday, he called like 5 minutes after and talked for 2 minutes. He seemed really annoyed and didn't want to talk while I tried everything to make the phone call longer (Didn't work, we both hung up). While we talked on the phone he told me to leave him alone and to stop messaging him. I sent him a text message an hour later "I'm sorry for my crazy behavior and constantly trying to get you back. After the call we had I just realized how needy and desperate that makes me look and I'd dislike for you to start hating me because of it. Yes, we've been together for 3 years and just suddenly breaking up with you has caused me to go down in chaos thinking you'd get back into a relationship so I kept trying to get you back before that happened, but then I thought more about it and I know you'd never do anything like that. You're a great guy for handling my craziness lol. I'd be glad to stay friends. Promise you that I won't go crazy like that again. Have a good night or day whenever you're reading this" He replied 2 minutes later with "Thanks for understanding. Goodnight" After I sent that text message I decided to start no contact for at least a month. We've been together for 3 years and I'm just wondering how someone who was madly in love with me 2 months ago can go from being so attached to me to not having any feelings at all? Did he really just stop all his feelings and is there a way to get him back? Does the no contact thing really work with situations like this? If so, how much time should I give it? Thanks. Link to comment
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