Latinagirl Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Alright so I've been with my BF for almost a year in the beginning he did some flirting behind my back I found out about it confronted him and he admitted to it apologized broke the one promise apologized and both have never happened again. Recently he's been talking to his one ex and it hurts alot and talks about her too. Am I in the wrong for feeling this way? Link to comment
DanZee Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Latinagirl, there is something going on in your relationship more than you're letting on. First it was a party that you weren't invited to and now he's talking to ex girlfriends. Are you worried he's cheating or is about to break up with you? Why don't you really tell us what's going on. It sounds like there's a lot of strain in your relationship. Link to comment
Latinagirl Posted March 9, 2018 Author Share Posted March 9, 2018 The party thing has been delt with but now this. Is there an issue with talking to an ex ? Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 The party thing has been delt with but now this. Is there an issue with talking to an ex ? In the context of not letting you come to a party you largely paid for - yes. https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=547446 You need to look at the bigger picture here. Something is not right with your relationship. Link to comment
Latinagirl Posted March 9, 2018 Author Share Posted March 9, 2018 What could that be? Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 What could that be? That he's not into you anymore, girl. The way he treated you regarding this party was abysmal. Him talking to an ex compounds this. This isn't a guy who is in love and respects you. Time to wake up and walk away. Link to comment
WaywardKiwi Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Alright so I've been with my BF for almost a year in the beginning he did some flirting behind my back I found out about it confronted him and he admitted to it apologized broke the one promise apologized and both have never happened again. Recently he's been talking to his one ex and it hurts alot and talks about her too. Am I in the wrong for feeling this way? Hi LatinaGirl, Sorry to say, but it honestly sounds like you both shouldn't be in this (and possibly any) relationship right now. Between how he originally acted around the party, the 'memorable events' pact, flirting around, breaking promises, and the trust issues in this situation; and it's been less than a year... Even saying 'both have never happened again' seems a bit trite considering there has barely been time for a repeat performance. I seriously get the feeling that continuing with this relationship will lead to compunding issues. So yeah, get out now is my advice. Good luck, T Link to comment
Latinagirl Posted March 9, 2018 Author Share Posted March 9, 2018 Could it be because of our recent money issues? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 What money issues? How is his ex involved in that?Could it be because of our recent money issues? Link to comment
Latinagirl Posted March 9, 2018 Author Share Posted March 9, 2018 Not in any way. He's had issues with work lately cut backs in hours Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Not in any way. He's had issues with work lately cut backs in hours Not sure what that has to do with him talking to an ex girlfriend and not standing up for you where your friend's party was concerned. If he was madly in love with you, he would have had your back regarding the party and wouldn't need to start talking to ex girlfriends. But the larger question is. . why is it you don't think you deserve respect from your boyfriend? Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 No, money issues are not at the root of his dismissive attitude toward you. Link to comment
Latinagirl Posted March 9, 2018 Author Share Posted March 9, 2018 I do think I deserve respect from my bf hence why I'm asking before I confront him I want to know that I'm in the right sometimes emotions over ride common sense. But in this situation I'm pretty sure I'm in the right Link to comment
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