Iratus Posted March 1, 2018 Share Posted March 1, 2018 I've posted here a few times regarding my relationship which is long distance currently and about the various problems within it, this may sound strange but can I get advice on the text and call dialogue between me and her, this is just from today: 08:15 - Her: Morning handsome 08:17 - Me: Morning Beautiful 10:30 - call from her lasting 1 hour 20 mins, I got criticized and had a go at for "talking over twice" actually it was both us just talking at the same time and each time I said sorry and "you first" to her with her replying "it don't matter" "I've forgotten now" "you're always doing it" "my mum does it to me" Anyway call went on at the same time she was doing her make-up and saying "she can't do her eyebrows" must have spent at least 20-30 mins talking about her make-up, then about her diet of which she is doing a very low calorie diet - I myself lost a massive amount of weight a few years ago, some 76 kilos, halving my body weight in 12 months, I was trying to help her by giving advice like, make sure to eat breakfast because it kicks your metabolism into gear, as she has been avoiding eating until dinner/tea time and only eating 1,000 cals or less! I got back "Told you, I do as I please, I don't do as anyone tells me" "I can't eat breakfast or I'm hungry all day" 12:03 - her: 310 cals in a smoked sausage! 12:12 - me: Not so bad (no idea what to say in return as I feel lost) 12:37 - her: I'm not going out it's nearly waist deep at some area's (snow storm in the uk, we all have it) 12:43 - me: Ah yeah best not to (again the lost what to say feeling) 12:46 - her: It's half way up the parked cars because it's drifting 12:49 - me: Oh lol 13:44 - her: Decided to have a sandwich for lunch it's too cold not eating atm (after having a go at me for saying to eat) 13:48 - me: Aye good you're having something (bemused) 13:51 - her: Kinda thought one day ain't gonna do much harm 13:55 - me: Nah one day won't hurt (bemused) 13:55 - her: You should see the snow up the side of the house lol. Someone got the car stuck in the street a moment ago and had to get dug out 13:57 - me: Oh lol why on earth are people even trying to drive in that (its a red warning) 13:58 - her: Well exactly the advice is still stay indoors unless essential travel 14:19 - her: If you had summat that took 2.5 mins in a 900w microwave how long would you do in a 750w? 14:21 - me: Probably try at about 3.5 mins maybe 14:21 - her: Ok 14:30 - her: Even with my sandwich, crisps and biscuits and having my tea later I'll be under 1000 14:37 - me: Aye that's good not an off day at all then? 14:38 - her: Nah best not 17:35 - me: Wish I could wrap my big strong arms tightly around your waist 17:35 - her: Aye would be nice 18:52 - me: The girls school is closed 2moro, is it any worse there? (I have 2 daughters from past ex) 19:00 - her: Big freeze on atm. We still have amber alert until 10 am 2moro. the airport has shut and roads all still dead. 19:04 - me: God frigging nightmare weather, parts of England got red alert I see now too. You be careful if you do go out 2moro sweetheart 19:04 - her: Aye will do 19:05 - her: Shouldn't have had lunch I'm starving now. 19:08 - me: Can you not have something else as you've not exactly had much and its damn cold. 19:08 - her: Had my calories for the day 19:17 - her: I have had a lot because I had a cheese sandwich, crisps, biscuits, sweet potato 19:20 - me: Yeah but how many cals? still around 1000? so not a great deal really 19:21 - her: Oh and a laughing cow cheese triangle to about 1013 19:22 - me: Have something if you're hungry, sure it won;t harm you 19:23 - her: Nothing I could have really 21:30 - her: Ended up having 2 slices of bread buttered and yet another bag of crisps so be about 1400 21:35 - me: Ah well at least you had something (again lost on what to reply) 21:35 - her: Aye but now I wish I hadn't In between there was a little talk on houses we looked at on facebook messenger. I'm not going to put an opinion yet as I'd like to hear what others say about this if possible? Link to comment
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