Strugglewithin Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 Hi. Im new to the forum and have come here to seek some help or advice. Not sure if this is in the right section but here goes Ive been married 12yrs next month, 2 kids 10&11 and been together almost 16yrs. My wife has a tendency to talk about me to her girlfriends in a negative way...basically running me down and exposing all my flaws and wrong doings. She also likes to dig up the past in front of our friends to start a scene or argument with me, but i no longer play that game and just ignore her. 1yr ago we sold up and moved interstate leaving behind all of my family and all of our friends behind so she can live her dream and for our kids to have a great place to grow up. She is now starting to do it all over again. I have no one to turn to as everyone i had is left behind All of this happens when she gets a few drinks in her. It affects me as i am somewhat introverted and makes it even harder for me to be myself around her and others. Im no saint but one thing i never do is talk trash about others...especially my wife. How do i progress from this? Its a regular occurrence and it is taking a toll on me mentally and im starting to feel alienated. Sorry for the novel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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