Am I Wasting My Time?

[abitbroken]

Honestly, have you really reviewed WHY you got divorced the first time and why the marriage didn't work to avoid repeating the same thing. and don't say "well, it took him 5 years to propose" - really, why did the marriage break down?

 

just repeating what i asked before -- i don't think you answered it

[Wiseman2]

Love this frankness. Goes a long way.

"you know, i have been thinking, i know we both said we needed to live with someone before we got married. Okay, we lived together. I am thinking now that marriage is really important to me and would rather live separately until we got married instead of playing house and wondering what it means

[BNurse73]

Honestly, have you really reviewed WHY you got divorced the first time and why the marriage didn't work to avoid repeating the same thing. and don't say "well, it took him 5 years to propose" - really, why did the marriage break down?

 

just repeating what i asked before -- i don't think you answered it

 

 

I did answer it.. go back and read the last page. My ex husband had an affair with my best friend. They are now they are married with a new baby. I have dealt with that and did several months of therapy.

 

 

I don’t need personal counseling and I wasn’t being manipulative. You were the one who said it was a good idea to maybe live separately to begin with and now you are changing your story. I don’t feel this conversation is necessary any longer. I have gotten all the opinions I feel like I need and still feel like it’s being misunderstood.

 

Thanks for all the comments.