Seymore Posted February 19, 2018 Share Posted February 19, 2018 After leaving my ex over 2 years ago, some counseling and talking with friends and family, I decided to start a Match account. My heart's not totally in it but I've been told to just do it, even if it's to see what's out there. Well, I've been mostly disappointed since 80 percent of the likes I'd gotten this first week were from phony accounts - I even tried getting a refund because of it but am stuck for 3 months so why not just make the best of it. Friday a girl messaged me, not phony. She said my profile made her smile and introduced herself. She seemed really cool and is attractive to me, although she is divorced with a kid but at my age that's to be expected I guess. I bit the bullet and replied. She responded soon after with "how long have you been married"...um, it was clear on my profile I've never been married. She quickly replied with "oops that wasn't meant for you" and an hour later replied apologizing for screwing up. I didn't respond but she continued. She told me her story and I saw a red flag - she separated 8 months ago and her divorce was JUST finalized 3 days ago. I got a weird feeling and didn't reply since 2 nights ago. She said she cancelled her account and won't be on after tomorrow but I noticed she still has been looking at my profile today and yesterday so she still seems interested. Do I reply before tomorrow or does this seem like a recipe for disaster? Link to comment
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