teachertalk21 Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 I was dating someone for just over two months. The relationship was quite intense and they were by far the most keen. They brought up meeting my family, my friends and even going away this summer. Last weekend they instigated a conversation about the status of our relationship and she said she was excited about calling me her girlfriend. Things were fine this week. We hung on on Valentine’s Day and she gave me a card saying she was excited about the future. We hung out yesterday all day until I went to meet a friend. She then decided to text me to effectively end things. I’m really confused by her behaviour. What could have triggered this? Link to comment
1a1a Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 Don't ever trust someone who gets that intense that quick, they might be in love with something but it's definitely not you. Link to comment
teachertalk21 Posted February 18, 2018 Author Share Posted February 18, 2018 Yeh, think that’s good advice for the future. It just reassured me because I thought that was a sign that they really liked me, but it was probably a sign of something different... Link to comment
glitterfingers Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 I think the correct way to view it is not to trust someone's emotions - this isn't about trusting the person. Odds are she genuinely felt what she felt, but there was something underneath that which wasn't right for her. Anyone's guess as to what was going on But the fundamental lesson is that you always keep your wits about you when greeted with intense emotions. Not to distrust their intentions completely, but just being aware that things that come on that quickly can fade just as fast. You're better off pacing a relationship that feels intense early on - if they can't handle that, then they were just caught in the moment Link to comment
Young mind Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 Sounds typical for someone who can't be alone and searching for someone/anyone to couple with, thus the intensity of the 2 months, no real time to get to know each other, just bombardment of "love", take it as a lesson learnt to be more analytical. Suggestions go from maybe an ex in the picture she might still have feelings for or she's still searching and you weren't the "one" Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 What reason did she cite for breaking up, OP? Link to comment
teachertalk21 Posted February 18, 2018 Author Share Posted February 18, 2018 That she didn’t think a relationship would work for us? No more detail than that... Link to comment
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