Fattyfat Posted February 16, 2018 Share Posted February 16, 2018 She is a co worker. We have been friends for 5 years. We are both in relationships. I have no intrest in trying anything or hooking up, but i do care about her alot. We talk alot, and lately she has been texting me late at night, usually because she is having a panic attack about something and her husbamd doesnt care or is asleep. Nothing out of the ordinary to me there, but what is nerve racking, is when at work if i do something for her or stop by her desk, even if she asks me to, she them proceeds to tell me how her seat mates tease her when i leave about being her man. If i ask her how she is infront of people l, she will later tell me that, everyone is talkijng about how i am "into" her. I can deal with this because i know where my feelings are. Ive told her my feelings, about how i am jappy we are friends but how my wofe is the absolute (a self description of of my wife by my wife). I told my friemd if it will make it better i will not come around as much or keep our cumunication to text, or email amd she is adament that she doesnt care about those people and just wants me to be around. Ok fine...but then if i give her my opinion about something in her life even if she doesnt ask, she gets angry and tells me to mind my own business. So i do, amd with in 2 days she is messaging me at night again amd telling me about her husband and how she wishes she had a better guy like me. Now i am not her type, like at all. Im not muscular, or "hot", or the confident type she likes, so i dont think she is in to me, but she keeps comin fb at me hot and cold and i was hoping someone or anyome could maybe tell me im missing here, and why she might be all over the place. Thanks... Link to comment
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