Aka197 Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 I have been on five dates with a new woman and have had sex on three out of the five dates. When we are together she says things that make me think she wants this to be more than just a sexual relationship. One weekend that we couldn't spend together she told me that she misses me. She has also opened up to me about a lot of issues she is having in her life. We talk every day and she she initiates the conversation. Lately though when I have reached out to her she seems cold or disinterested. She has explained to me that she wants to be single but if I stick around that there is something for us down the road. I am I reading into what seems like her distancing herself from me? I feel like I am about to get played. Any insights would be helpful. Link to comment
Betterwithout Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 Is it possible that she recently ended a relationship and is looking for healing? It seems she doesn't really know what she wants right now, and you do. (a mismatch for the time being) Tread carefully to protect your heart. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 . She has explained to me that she wants to be single but if I stick around that there is something for us down the road. . Or. . .she hadn't intended on catching feelings and if you keep coming around, she might fall for you Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 Do you want more than fwb or booty call? If so ask her out on more romantic dates, if not let her keep contacting you. Is she on the rebound or on/off with an ex? Link to comment
DancingFool Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 I'm confused. How exactly would you be played? What do you actually want from her? If you want a relationship, speak up. If you are cool with casual dates and sex, let her know. If you and her aren't on the same page, then part ways and keep on looking for someone who wants what you do. Link to comment
Aka197 Posted February 9, 2018 Author Share Posted February 9, 2018 She has said that she is falling for me and is didn't intend to. Link to comment
Aka197 Posted February 9, 2018 Author Share Posted February 9, 2018 She has gotten out of a long relationship not to long ago and had had one bf in between me and her long relationship. Link to comment
DaisyMayPorter Posted February 10, 2018 Share Posted February 10, 2018 Maybe she is just hurt so she is distancing herself a little bit. Maybe she realized she is getting too close and doesn't want to be hurt. Link to comment
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