jooop1985 Posted December 19, 2017 Share Posted December 19, 2017 Hi everyone. This forum has really been helpful till now. There is my post where i posted about my separation with my wife on divorce forums (super confused ex wife) I also had very good insights from member Lester and others. Well my ex wife wants to date/hang out to see if there ia any connection left. We have been on two dates in last week and next one is tomorrow. I have pretty much screwed up first two, as i didn't know what is she trying to do with this hanging out as she never openly said what does she want. Now for tomorrow i really don't know how to act. I wanted to be relaxed and enjoy, but since she is unsecure about staying in marriage i am also afraid to get attached again and get hurt again. We have been separated for 3.5 months and i managed to get some emotional deattachment. Should i act kind and friendly? Should i ask what are her goals with this hanging out? Should I tell her my concerns about attaching again and getting hurt again? Link to comment
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