10023711 Posted December 3, 2017 Share Posted December 3, 2017 So i've posted here before. People were saying this particular girl wasn't really interested in me, and it seems to be true. Fast forward until now: All we've done is kissed and went out a few times. So i texted her 4 days prior and said we should go bowling. She says "okay when" and "maybe". I tell her the time and day and she says "okay remind me on saturday". (the only reason i texted her this stuff is because she actually came up to me in a bar one week ago, i originally was going to not speak to her) - Saturday comes and i text her 4 hours prior saying ill be there. No response. I show up and say "Im here. Are you coming? If not thats ok. Just tell me". No response. I call once and it goes straight to voicemail after one ring. I call again and it rings a while and she doesnt answer. - I get a text 1.5 hours later saying "sh*t sorry i was asleep". I then call her 30 mins later. No response. I then see her at the bar 5 hours later but she doesn't bother coming up to me. She sees me flirting with a legit model looking chick that i know. She literally Later that night she stares me in the eyes, *but* she has a guy hugging her. I just look away. Then she comes up to me and hugs me. She says "Sorry i honestly fell asleep for like 5 hours.... We're going to [bar name] " (she basically wanted me to come along imo).... i just nod the whole time and say "well ill see you around" and leave. - So yea, I just take it she has someone else and is just playing/testing me. I'm not going to contact her at all. I know i'll see her around bars and stuff. I'm just going to find someone i find attractive. I don't know why but no one really seems interested in me. This particular girl seemed interested. She actually texted back, and was willing to go on dates with me. Usually i wont even get a text back. People have said i'm attractive and stuff, so idk. I'm pretty awkward to talk to, and that is what really affected things imo. I can hold a decent conversation though. - What do you think of this all of this? Was I that low in her radar for her to do this to me? Like maybe only a 10% attraction? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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