MindLESS Posted December 2, 2017 Share Posted December 2, 2017 I’m all sorts of confused in my situation. So my ex girlfriend broke up with me out of the blue right before she was leaving to go on a traveling tour for an unexpected amount of time. She had previously gone back and forth about the idea of being together while she was on the road. One week she wasn’t all about it, talk about our future, the next week she dumped me. I was really upset as a I fully felt we were going in on this. Then Boom. She goes cold for 2 days and then breaks up with me, citing all sorts of reasons (timing, spiritual state, the distance would tear us apart, said she would drag me down because of her current state of mind and travel, my work situation, not a strong enough foundation for travel) it had all the feels of a GIGS BREAKUP. I didnt handle this well and was very upset. She asked that we end all correspondence for the the time being. I have complied. And it’s been two months of silence. No texts, calls, social media likes, nothing. Welcome to cut off society to me. This left me in a strong state of confusion and depression. I disappeared completely for a month. Then once I felt a little better I brought myself back Into the world. I posted a few of my experiences on Facebook and Instagram and was also a regular Instagram “story” user. She watched EVERY single one but never liked my posts until one recently. She was clearly to some extent, stalking my Instagram as she’s was at the top of the list of my story watchers, Everytime. This caused me to look into why this far too much. But I let it go and kept doing me. A few days ago I had gone skydiving (amazing) and posted the video of my jump on Insta/Facebook. She liked my Facebook post but not the Instagram post. It threw me off because it was our first form of any sort of connecting since the breakup. Two days later, she unfollows me on Instagram. It was like a kick to the chest. I know it may seem petty but, I was left with very little to go on at the point of breakup, so I’ve been kind of left to my own devices on this. She is still friends with me on Facebook as well as half of my family. Which adds to the nonesense of the confusion. I really don’t want to feel like enemies with her and have thought of reaching out to her since it’s been long enough (at least I thought) to have a conversation of to get a little closure. But I have been drilled with the “let her come to you fundamentals” so much that it’s making sit tight and Not pull the trigger. However sometimes I feel like this is not the case for us because it was a very circumstantial breakup. Any advice would appreciated. Thank you in advance. I’m just doing my best to make sense of all this. If you need me to elaborate on anything else, I am more than willing to do so. Link to comment
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