Lizzy1977 Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 I have just spilt from a 10yr relationship, I am 40 and he is 59. We both have children, he has 2 in their late 20's amd I have. 17yrold, we've never lived together due to me not wanting to move my child from his school and friends. For the first 7 years he worked away, which was great because every time he came back it was exciting and passionate. Now he works in his town amd we try see each other as much as possible as it's only live 25 miles away. He was badly hurt during and after his divorce. (We met 7 years after) and still hurts now, so much that he is only walking his daughter down the aisle then leaving. I also have had bad experiences. My sons father, physically and mentally abusive for 7 years, and I only left him because I was worried for my son safety. , I have brung up my son most of my life so have a very special bond as is father is in and out of jail or on heavy drugs. I have always wanted to be married amd recently be getting to me big time. Any time previously that we've had a wedding etc he tells me not to speak about. I have just finished with him because he won't marry me , I love him, he's so good to me. BUT IS THIS ENOUGH....HAVE I DONE THE RIGHT THING Link to comment
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