blackswift Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 Hi guys so I've known this guy for almost 10 yrs now, he was from the town i grew up until i left in late 2000s. Anyway he came to visit where i live now just this summer but we didnt get the chance to meet since I was too caught up with work and he just stayed for 2 weeks. We continued chatting until one day I decided to just flirt a little, note that I've had a little crush on him since the beginning but I did not respond to it since I was dating other people. Flirting continued until he told me he's coming to town this November and see how it goes. He booked a hotel resort for the 2 of us for the good 3-4 days and even rented a place near my work. He's staying for 2 weeks again. Okay I like this guy, but I have a feeling that he's just coming here for sex. He knows I like him, I tried asking him if he's down for a commitment and he said he's not into long distance. And he likes what we have now.. "nice and friendly, and open". I don't need advice as to how to make him fall for me or to commit, but I need tips on how to keep my guard up much more. I want to see him, thats all... but do you guys have more tips on how to keep my composure? I don't want to fall deeper for him because I know for a fact and he stated he's not into ldr. I just want to make sure I wont get hurt here, thanks in advance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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