A689512 Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 I have been with this great guy for about a year now. My last relationship was extremely abusive, physically and mentally, so I'm still insecure and timid at times. I told my boyfriend, let's call him J, that I loved him, and he doesn't love me back. That was 3 months ago and he still doesn't. He had some bad breakups in the past and admits that he hasn't been in love for over 8 years and isn't even sure what it feels like it anymore. However, he treats me and acts like he does, despite the fact that we argue over my insecurities. Idk. I was told every day by my ex that no one would ever love me besides him. And sometimes I still believe him. Anyways, I feel like I'm waiting for something that will never happen. If he doesn't love me by now he probably never will. I'm torn between staying and seeing how it plays out, or just sparing myself the time and end it now. Someone please help. He really is a great guy. Link to comment
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