baller4543 Posted September 15, 2017 Share Posted September 15, 2017 So about a week ago I met a girl in my apartment complex and we hung out with some other people in the complex. the next day, she goes out to the bars but comes back because she said she didn't like being out and wanted to hangout. after that we basically hit it off the next couple of days. it was very flirty, but the problem was we were always with friends. we were finally alone for a brief time watching netflix while my roomate was gone on the third day and i was about to put my arm around her because she was sitting close but my roommate just walked in , so i didn't try it. later that night when my roommate went to bed, i asked if she would like to go out in about 5 days and that i'll take her to a movie and dinner. she agreed and was very excited. she left after that because it was late. I probably could've tried to pull a move but i wanted to take it slow. So the pretty much every day up until the date we have been hanging out. I suggested going to a drive in and she loved the idea. but it seems like since that night i asked her out she has been less interested. when i sit next to her on the couch she sorta moves away and isn't nearly as flirty or texty as before. so tonight we hung out again (the night before the date) i asked if we were still on for tomorrow and she said yeah but that she wants to get food and bring it to the movie instead. she also didn't seem very enthusiastic about it. i gave her the option to do a regular movie but she said a drive in was cool. (our plan was to sit in the back seat of my truck with a mattress and basically lay in bed and watch it). So even though she hasn't been as flirty and she has seemed distant , she still wants to go on the date and continues to come over to hangout. Last night (2 nights before date) we hung out and she seemed SUPER distant and brought back the sandals she borrowed from me and didn't seem to even want to hangout even tho she was still there. So i am so freaking confused on how to read this girl... at this point i think she is going along with the date to be nice but i gave her the option to just do a more casual movie (we both wanted to see IT) but she was cool with drive in. I may be over thinking the whole thing and I guess we will know tomorrow when the date happens but I just want to know how i should act. since we have hung out everyday recently we know each other pretty decently . I am just so into this girl and i do not want to screw it up. I may be overthinking it all, it just confuses me because if she does end up rejecting me tomorrow i'll still be seeing her daily because we live so close. sorry for long post. this is first time. send help Link to comment
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