not respondonce from messenger freind

[joe45]

ok heres the deal, i now this gal from one of my language classes and shes nice and all right. i saw her at the cafertia and she waved at me saying hello and i said hi back. we chatted about our new substuite being all strict and all and that our new teacher will be back ah thank god. shes seemd nice and really talktive, i asked her if she was going take courses in the summer she said yes and i said i was going to take courses in the summer too. i told her i had a pic on hot or not and she said she would never do that as it would be so embarsssing, and that when she sees it she give me a 10 and e mail me. thats when i asked from an exhange in email. i gave her mine and i asked for hers with her e mail she also wrote down her msn messenger. i did tell her my problems with a girl i liked and hoiw i got rejected and she gave me some advice and we role played-pretend u are the girl and i am the guy thing. 2 days ago i msn messengered her she didn't respond to "hi how u doin" i wasn;t on mesenger for long, today i said" finished one exam one more to go" she didn't resond back. it did say jen(away) but i messeenger her anyways while she was online, she doesn't respond. then like later in 5-8 minutes later shes offline. so why didn't she respond to my messenger while she was online even though away. btw she did mention she has a bf which i don't care i jsut want a female friend to hang with. it be nice , what should i do to make her now i just want to be friends and nothing more. i never had a female friend. i am 24 but told her i was 22 -anyways i look young and she is 18. what should i do if she still doesn't respond. she a nice girl but also ncie and talktive to everyone guys and gals. i could be the finals lots to study and not much time to chat, but what happens if this still continues on after the finals what should i do. just drop it hey

[DN]

Joe, I hate to tell you but I think she is not interested. It could be because she thinks you want more than friendship and she has a boyfriend, but she could also not want to be a friend with a male because her b/f may get jealous.

 

Not a good idea to lie about your age! Suppose you did become a friend and she found out you lied? How would you explain that and how could she then trust anything you said?

[annie24]

Yeah... ditto to what DN said. She may have not IMed you back because she thinks you may like her, and she doesn't want to lead you on. Or, like DN said, she may have a jealous bf, and she may not want him to upset him. The age thing isn't great either.

 

I'd let it go. If she wants to be your friend later, she'll contact you. I hope you meet some new female friends!

[providentielle]

I dont think she would have given u her msn if she didnt want to chat. There could be so many reasons why she didnt respond before she went offline, she could have been really busy or got disconnected. I do agree with DN regards lying about your age though, thats not gonna be advantagous to any sort of future friendship, she will find out and know you lied.

[annie24]

Yeah - one thing I do often is have my messenger on when I'm not around. Then, I come back a few hours later and see a few people tried to say hi, but no answer. If you see her around campus, say hi. But, don't push things, you know.