Allison44 Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 I have this guy friend. I've known him for about almost 2 years now. In the past, I told him that I had a crush on him but he said he was dating someone else and I said its ok I still wanna be his friend. So in the winter semester, we took an algebra class together and we'd always see each other and our friendship was good. He'd answer my texts right away and we'd have study sessions. This summer, he had to redo a class. I sacrificed time to help him and even stayed up late to help him basically. I even motivated him and gave him my notes. Also, We'd joke around texting and he would always have something to respond. But after his summer exam, I would ask him if he wants to hang out (because we did during the semester) and he always gives an excuse like "no I'm going away this weekend". Like trying to distance himself from me. He went on a trip and ever since, he hasn't been texting me with interest. I always have to text him. I called him a few times and he doesn't pick up. I don't understand. I helped him so much, and the least he could do is just meet up with me once during summer and spend time. I let him know that I don't have feelings for him but I just wanna chill with him. He said we'll meet during the semester (think its a lie) Also he doesn't wanna hang because he's saving money but I said that I could pay for him (friends buy each other lunch, totally fine). But he doesn't feel comfortable. I feel like he used me for my help. And he doesn't really find our friendship interesting. What you guys think? Does he still wanna be friends with me or did he just use me for my help?? Link to comment
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