avaloncleo Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 Hi there, This is my first thread- my mom has recently discovered that my dad has been seeing prostitues...i am not sure why she has told me other than being in a bad place mentally and her lacking friends...they have a bizarre relationship where they sleep in other rooms- its been like this for the last 8 years...she has contantly degraded him and criticized in the past, for instance saying things such as, "i cant wait to meet someone new", "i cant wait to start dating"- i mentioned this too her the past critcisms and she said she said those things to get his attention...to me it seems like they are seperated as they live in seperate rooms but my mom is devastated, i am devastated too but also find it disgusting and high risk activity...he also gambles, my mom found this out because she put a gps tracker on his car and discovered his gambling problem, then discovered his escort activity thru google activity-google monitors the sites you log and everything else as long as your gmail is logged in...needless to say this is a messed up situation...i am 31 live at home with my 2 children and husband...how do i get over this? i am stunned that he has been seing escorts- my mom has confronted him but i cannot even look at him without feeling such contempt...it really is disgusting...i have a personal moral comapss that has always been very anti i cant stand that behaviour...my husband said that he is still the same person and to me, i feel like he is leading a double life, we put money into the house and says he has none- i even gave him my car to use and its probably got hookers lingering all over it- i am sickened- we give money on top of the rent because apparently he is at work all day but really hes gambling or with hookers...how do i deal with this? how do you get someone help for this? If anyone has any suggestions or has been thru something similar please feel free to respond, literelaly found out about this on thursday, each day is a different feeling towards him...kind of feel like cutting him off as i feel disgusted with him, 59 banging 20 something year olds...its not even the age, its just wow...i hope no one has to go thru this... Link to comment
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