EclipseTheWitc Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 My ex fiance broke up with me about 8 months ago. It was sudden and honestly out of nowhere. I thought we were happy and had so many future plans, I've never felt this way about someone, I honestly feel he is my soulmate. Anyway, he broke up with me because "we werent happy", we had problems but I was so sure that he was happy and he made me happy despite our problems. He completely changed as soon as we split, he became hurtful and cruel, started drinking and moved in with some work friends. There was no other woman as far as im aware because he's still single. He acted as though we never mattered, when the day before we split up he told me he loved me more than his own family and wanted to spend his life with me. He dissapeared and told me to move on after a week. 3 months later after NC he calls me crying saying he made mistake, still loves me, blah blah. We meet up the next day and both admit we still love and miss each other but I made it clear that I am hurt and he would have to try for my trust and forgiveness. We agreed to talk as friends and see how it goes. Then, he barely speaks. Tells me he needs time...after calling me and telling me he still wants to spend his life with me. Two weeks later says he doesn't love me anymore and dissapears. A week later comes back saying he didnt mean what he said and will always love me. Since then he keeps contacting me, having casual conversation but it goes nowhere. He occasionally flirts but doesnt advance. Usually I would just forget the idiot that dumped me, but with him I cant seem to let go even after all the hurt he has caused. The past few weeks I have barelt heard from him. I feel a burning urge to just want to talk to him about everything, get it off my chest but I dont know how and I dont want to look weak. I dont know what to do. Link to comment
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