Malborough Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 Hi Everyone, So me and my gf/ex have been at it for a year and a half, probably half of that time long-distance. She's been finishing Uni and I've been working abroad saving to go back to Uni. It was tricky for both of us but we looked forward to moving to the same city a month or so from now. Suddenly enough as soon as her exams finished she called to tell me she had been having doubts for some time about the relationship for a variety of reasons. These included her not being sure she saw a long-term future (she's 22), my politics not being in line with hers as I'd be slightly right wing, though I care very little about politics, that I'd like to start saving for a house in the near future instead of splurging on holidays to Thailand, and failing to direct her when I drove with her to move her home from Uni which had her thinking we might not make it back to hers in time (yep really). These were just some of the pre-prepared reasons she had for wanting to take a 'break' while she goes travelling with her mates for the next 4 weeks. I kinda just absorbed all this while she told me she likely wouldn't sleep with anyone but wanted to feel free to do so while she figures out what she wants. I basically went along with this, kinda in a state of shock, as I didn't want to call everything off completely as i'm still head over heels for her (least when she's not complaining/criticising) but I feel like i'm being played for a fool. It could be that she just isn't feeling it anymore after so long apart either and just doesn't have it in her to dump me, I don't know. Anyway she offered to meet me if I wanted to talk more and I said I'd think about it. Should I tell her where to go or meet her and see if things can be picked up when we've moved to the same city? Thanks, Link to comment
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