SunnyDayz Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 I've felt it coming for a while now... and knew it was just a matter of time until I had to end our relationship. We've been drifting apart for a long time and the relationship isn't giving me what I need... Despite the drifting, I guess she feels that we're fine... (part of the problem, in fact), but I've reached the decision that this needs to end. The problem is that I reached this conclusion in the weeks before she left for her annual vacation in Europe... I didn't want to have "the talk" right before she left and ruin her vacation... but now she's there and texting me and phoning me with the usual (intermittent) affection. I know in my heart that we're done, but I'm trying hard not to let the cat out of the bag while she's there. Still, she can feel that something is off. Do I pretend everything is normal and respond with lots of hearts and "I love you's" as I would normally do? It feels deceitful... and she'd come home thinking everything is great and then have this break-up come from out of the blue. How should I act with her that's respectful and honest... until she returns home to the hard talk we're destined to have? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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