Ambeani Posted May 21, 2017 Share Posted May 21, 2017 In bed this morning my boyfriend and I were sleepily fooling around and after obvious hints from me he initiated foreplay. I was enjoying it and really getting into it when he slowed down and stopped. It really annoyed me so I turned over in a huff, perhaps slightly immaturely, but i couldn't help it. He eventually asked me what was wrong, and if I was angry at him for touching me. I said no, I'm angry because you're lazy for not finishing it off. An argument ensued, he said I was ungrateful of the affection, I said he was selfish for thinking it's fine to get me going and then stop. He said "... are you saying this on purpose to make me not like you?" which really hurt and made me madder. He can't see how frustrating it is. Now we're not speaking and he seems mad at me and I'm not sure whether I've been the selfish one. I feel like if this guy adored and loved me he would have wanted to keep pleasuring me, and even if he was too tired to carry on, he'd at least be more understanding when he can see I'm upset instead of turning it around and acting like I'm a pain in the ads for wanting to be intimate. sorry if this sounds petty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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