i am in love with my boss

[yellow angel]

i am falling in love with my boss who is married..

i hate the feeling..

please help me..i need your advice.

thanks.

[jasminebose]

Not a good idea at all. Mainly because he is married but also because he is your boss! That is just way too complicated. I would try and not be around him (unless other people are there) and not talk too personally with him. You need to focus on getting an available guy. Its not fair to put his marriage at risk, what future would a relationship with him have?

JZ

[Mun]

Hi there,

Just remind yourself that he is married and that married means 'hands off' to you. I think that is one of the problems... we forget that sometimes.

[annie24]

Here, let me read you a passage from my bible - "He's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Greg is responding to a woman who is dating her married boss:

[justsweetgirl]

I know people in this situation currently and it is not a pretty picture. I think if they'd had a chance to do things differently, what with all the fallout, they sincerely would.

[Luciana]

Please don't act on your fantasy/desire.

 

Read Gloria Vanderbilt's biography "It seemed important at the time". she emphasizes to stay away from married men. They break your heart. They never leave their wives (you may think you can do that-but years may go by). Lastly, just think about the pain you are causing another woman. Put yourself on her shoes-would you like another woman to do this to you and the man you love?

[hoser26]

Im in a simular situation but she is married too. We both are in marriages that are bad, Im separated she isnt. We have done nothing but talk and flirt. We have an incredibel ability to talk to each other profesionally and intimently. Its like both of us are interviewing each other just in case we both were to leave our spouses.

If your single and your boss wants out of his relationship then wait. If he is just using his power to get some side action, dont....

[hoser26]

I will not break the married mans code, but I feel I have because im always thinking of her instead of my wife...