PLane1375 Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 Ex girlfriend [22 F] of 8 months broke up with me [23 M] 2 weeks ago. She just texted me, and I don't know what to think. My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She was the one that decided to end the relationship. It happened pretty suddenly so I have been pretty upset and hurt over it for the past 2 weeks. We go to school together, so we see each other in classes but she's kind of made it a point then to avoid me, other than the occasional wave hello for the past 2 weeks. Yesterday she texted me out of the blue, and asked me how I was doing and what I was up to, just small talk. It struck me as kind of odd, since she spent so long avoiding me. So today, I asked her if she had something on her mind when she texted me yesterday. I asked her if she had thought about the relationship at all, and she said "yes, but I haven't really changed my mind." She also said "I miss spending time with you, but I doesn't know if things will change." We started out as good friends before getting together, and I know she still wants to be friends, but I'm obviously not over her yet, and I let her know that. I told her it'd be hard for me to spend time with her right now, and that I just need more time to move on. The relationship had gotten pretty serious in that 8 months. We met each other's parents and what not. What do you guys think? Is she still not sure or does she really just want to be friends? She's never given a definitive "no I won't change my mind" or "Things won't change". She always uses words like "I haven't really changed my mind" or "I don't think things will change", and I keep getting hung up on that. What do you guys think? Is it strange that she told me she missed spending time with me just two weeks after a break up? If there's still hope there, of course I don't want to give up yet, but I want to move on too if need be, and as soon as possible, these past 2 weeks have been really difficult.
Wiseman2 Posted February 22, 2017 Posted February 22, 2017 Unfortunately it sounds like friendzone communication. This is pretty clear that reconciling is not on her mind: "I haven't really changed my mind" or "I don't think things will change". We started out as good friends before getting together and I know she still wants to be friends, but I'm obviously not over her yet, and I let her know that. Is she still not sure or does she really just want to be friends?
PLane1375 Posted February 23, 2017 Author Posted February 23, 2017 Hmm, my thread got posted again 3 days later somehow. It's ok. I've chosen to just give up. There's nothing I can do anymore. I appreciate all of the advice everyone has given me here and in the other thread. Thank you.
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