lucasargeseanu Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 It has been one month since me and my girlfriend ended our 2 year and a half relationship. We have both accepted it was the good decision, but she still sends texts from time to time that I keep answering like the stupid guy that I am ( since she has a new relationship anyways ). I have started taking my healing process very serious and by that I mean going to gym everyday, talking to numerous girls and seeing them but with no luck in finding them special or wanting something with them. Before my girlfriend I dated dozens of women, went in bed with 30-40 of them. I cannot find in my mind or in my circle of friends a woman that I find more interesting, attractive or special. Even as I was writing this post, I received a message from my ex: " How are you doing? " I go out with women or friends and there are times when my mind just shuts down everyone and thinks of her. It's f**king frustrating. I think it's more of an obsession than something else. I do not want to go to therapy as I think I'm still young and I always thought you are the best psychiatrist for yourself. My ex-girlfriend wasn't very smart, but I like smart women , and I know some... My ex-girlfriend didn't have a very great family and I know some that have an incredible family to be a part of. My ex-girlfriend didn't have personal dreams regarding her career or what she wants to do and I know women with incredible motivation that are musicians , actors, doctors, lawyers, etc.. But I CANNOT FIND NONE OF THEM FIT FOR ME, especially regarding how they look.. My ex-girlfriend was, is and I think will be the most beautiful woman on earth. What is wrong with me? Link to comment
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