Miffycat14 Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Today has been particularly bad for me.. Cried so much I had a panic attack. Is it just me this happens to? I'm feeling a little bit better now I'm at work but that dull ache is still there. This is horrific Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 You need to get some help. This guy has lied, cheated and treated you disrespectfully, over and over. You know that this guy does not care, but you continue to go back to get emotionally beaten down. This is now on you! You need to take some responsibility and block this guy. There is NO FUTURE!!! Time to value yourself. He doesn't. Link to comment
DoF Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 It's as big of a deal or as small of a deal as YOU make it. Currently, you are making it a HUGE deal. It's not healthy or good for you so I suggest you stop it! Link to comment
Miffycat14 Posted September 25, 2015 Author Share Posted September 25, 2015 He is blocked and I haven't contacted him. Unfortunately that isn't removing how hurt I feel! Which is what I'm struggling with! Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 This guy has really treated you like garbage, for a long time. No offense, but none of his behavior should be a surprise. You need to learn to treat yourself better, and that means getting out after the first red flag. You need to understand why you were attracted to this dynamic. Get some therapy. Link to comment
tennisgirl222 Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 He is blocked and I haven't contacted him. Unfortunately that isn't removing how hurt I feel! Which is what I'm struggling with! Ah I feel your pain. I spent my whole lunch break today sobbing in my car and have came home and don't exactly the same! I'd usually be seeing him tonight . I am in NC but I only have to think of anything from him meeting and liking someone new or just us spending time together and I feel physically sick and claustrophobic at the thought. I'm not doing much to help myself as it is all I think about. Guess we just have to find the positives but it's so hard to see any when I miss and love him so much. Link to comment
Dottieflanogon Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Time only time will make it all better. In the meanwhile try to stay busy with other things you like to do and spend some time with close good friends.Hang in there,it does get better Link to comment
boltnrun Posted September 25, 2015 Share Posted September 25, 2015 Remember...contacting the guy who caused all the pain is NOT a cure for the pain. It's like saying you're allergic to peanuts, so the cure for the allergic reaction is to eat more peanuts. Makes no sense. Stay strong, all he'll cause you is more and worse pain. Link to comment
Running55 Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 He is blocked and I haven't contacted him. Unfortunately that isn't removing how hurt I feel! Which is what I'm struggling with! That violin that your are hearing is your heart which has nothing to do with him. Love yourself my dear and sing your heart out and become strong WOMEN you are, and then find love Link to comment
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