Wolfman389 Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 So here's the situation....usually 2 times a day i go to holiday gas station...once in the morning to get coffee and once in the afternoon to get smokes and soda. Im 31 and there is a really cute but young 18 or 19yr old chick that works there. Things started off just like a normal in and out thing. But I've started small talk over the last 2 months and have built it up enough that she is an acquaintance...we've joked and laughed (even when i made a stupid joke she laughed hysterically) and shes even teased me (told another cashier to give me the complete opposite of what I asked for). I notice she will give me a double take when i walk in and will generally make her way up to the counter to take care of my purchases. I consider my self to be good looking and charismatic( i have no problem talking to woman, except im not ballzy enough to cold approach a woman) I've also noticed that when she has no make up on and hair is messy she will not look at me and almost avoids me but the opposite when shes dolled up ( this am she wouldn't help me cause she wasn't at her best). She also ID'd me a while back and i know she wanted to see my age. I just need an opinion on if i should ask her out and if the signs are there from more experienced people. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 Don't you think she's a little young? Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 What Hollyj said. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 She could be 17, just look like an 18 year old. Be very very careful what you get yourself into. I think you two are at such different stages in life it just wouldn't work - she's still growing up and you could be her father (well, not quite, but just getting a point accross). I think someone your own age would work far far better. Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted September 13, 2015 Author Share Posted September 13, 2015 I completely agree capricorn...her age is what is holding me back to a point....but what if? I've had 3 serious relationships and they didn't work...im happy with life and honestly..seeing her brightens my day Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted September 13, 2015 Author Share Posted September 13, 2015 And not to be a pig but i haven't had sex in a year and 3 months...and what if that's all it was...just a fun hookup Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 And not to be a pig but i haven't had sex in a year and 3 months...and what if that's all it was...just a fun hookup That would be up to her - maybe she doesn't want to be used. Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted September 13, 2015 Author Share Posted September 13, 2015 Also completely agree Link to comment
Hollyj Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 I would also consider how uncomfortable it will be going into the convenience store, after your little bit of fun. I agree with Capricorn. It sounds like you are just out to use her. Not nice. Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted September 13, 2015 Author Share Posted September 13, 2015 It wouldn't bother me...ive had flings in the past that I clearly stated that that's all it would be and had them agree to it...granted they did go for more Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted September 13, 2015 Author Share Posted September 13, 2015 I would never get someones hopes up then drop them...that would be an move....but as i think about it more and more...its a 12 to 13 year gap...i agree that they are just entering adulthood and im a mature adult (some will disagree with that statement since im considering this) Link to comment
Dottieflanogon Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 What's your expectations? What's hers? It would look to be a physical relationship on the front end since the maturity factor is huge here. If you are being honest, you probably are hugely turned on and she is hugely feeling special a 31 year old is finding her desirable. This has a short shelf life...but maybe thats what you both want? Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted September 13, 2015 Author Share Posted September 13, 2015 Well I'll be honest...i want to find the woman i get to spend the rest of my life with...it would truly be hard to find that in someone that young....BUT....life is so short...i wake up every day for the new experiences Link to comment
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