Problem

[Kensico22]

I read a text I shouldnt have from my GF phone - she had texted her ex saying that she loves him very much and just wanted closure -if thye could meet for coffee - I shouldnt have read but it was actually by accident I did - (we have access to each others cells all the time if we wanted to) I confronted her about it but didnt say what my source was - she denied it and went on the offensive about some bull - I wish I never saw it, but I cant ignore it either - if I confront about how I got info then I look bad, which I'm not - bad deliema - Thanks for any suggestions - Hurt.Angry, sad

[sentiententity]

That is a pickle. If you come clean then she has to. (Hopefully.)

[faraday]

I think it's time to end things with her. If you don't trust her (which you don't- you were reading her texts) AND she's clearly not over her ex...there's not really much here that can be salvaged.

 

Either you guys have been together a super long time and can talk through this (but then...she's still hung up on her ex, your relationship is a lie) or you guys are newer to dating each other and don't have the history together to work through this.

 

I mean, what can she say that will make it alright? That will make you trust her again?

[bluesnowball]

I would definitely put a stop to this. Your not being treated fairly and ask her what if it was other way around and you were texting your x? She feel the same way. Ask her what she's doing w/ you if she still has feelings for him? She's in denial. Good luck