engraved2008 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 How did you get over it? Heaven2....I did.hard.he was like a drug .he made me so addicted to him.he played the friend card to me.hot and cold.after he imbarassed me for his birthday because I did not give him 500 and threw the biggest fit .hitted the walls in the hotel room where we spent the night ...I was done . Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 I didn't pay his cell phone bill Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 That's horrible. I emailed his sister on Facebook to try to get in touch with him but I doubt she will respond or if she does it won't be nice. I'm so upset Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 I just wish he'd come back so I could dump him Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I just wish he'd come back so I could dump him That is just ego talking. Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 Yeah, I'm mad as can be. How he played me infuriates me Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Yeah, I'm mad as can be. How he played me infuriates me He was a jerk. Time generally doesn't change that...you are madder at yourself for.allowing it. Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 There's a girl that's friends with him on Twitter and I think she liked him. I should let her know what he is like Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 There's a girl that's friends with him on Twitter and I think she liked him. I should let her know what he is like Stop trying to find revenge. It is beneath you. You will come accross as the crazy ex and they will simply laugh. Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 Tough healing with no closure Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 Not even dumped just walked away Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 That is a classic form of dumping. And his silence is your closure. You are still giving him head space. Why? Close the door in your mind and.put it behind you. Link to comment
engraved2008 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 There's a girl that's friends with him on Twitter and I think she liked him. I should let her know what he is like Dont do that please !! i know its painful,but is not her fault.Its going to make you look worse. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I want to punch whoever came up with the idea of "closure". Not really but sort of. Closure does not exist! At least, it's not something you "get" from someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore. There are no answers they can give you that will make you feel "ok, I understand and now I'm completely healed!" "Closure" means you accept the relationship is over and you must move on with your life. And it's not something you get from whoever dumped you, but something you gift yourself with because it's healthy. Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 Thanks. I'm starting to feel better Link to comment
engraved2008 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I want to punch whoever came up with the idea of "closure". Not really but sort of. Closure does not exist! At least, it's not something you "get" from someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore. There are no answers they can give you that will make you feel "ok, I understand and now I'm completely healed!" "Closure" means you accept the relationship is over and you must move on with your life. And it's not something you get from whoever dumped you, but something you gift yourself with because it's healthy. Thanks. I'm starting to feel better heaven2..PM if you d like to.anytime. i ll tell you more. Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 Pm? I don't know what you mean. Lol ok. But yes I'd like to know more Link to comment
engraved2008 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I want to punch whoever came up with the idea of "closure". Not really but sort of. Closure does not exist! At least, it's not something you "get" from someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore. There are no answers they can give you that will make you feel "ok, I understand and now I'm completely healed!" "Closure" means you accept the relationship is over and you must move on with your life. And it's not something you get from whoever dumped you, but something you gift yourself with because it's healthy. PM means you emailing me directly and i will respond.I ll tell you more about what happened to me years a go.I have some threads here since 2009 if you can still find them . Pm? I don't know what you mean. Lol ok. But yes I'd like to know more Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Heaven does dot have PM privileges yet. Link to comment
heaven2 Posted March 11, 2015 Author Share Posted March 11, 2015 You can email my private email if you want? Link to comment
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